My beach chair is nothing special at first glance. It’s a clunky
old-style chair that sits close to the ground with an aluminum tube frame, wood
arm rests, an adjustable back, and an odd and really pretty ugly sliced fruit
design on the fabric seat and back. It doesn’t have a handle or a shoulder
strap, it has no snazzy bag it slips into, it has no brand, and it doesn’t advertise
anything. My chair doesn’t have a name (I’m not prone to anthropomorphist
tendencies). It is simply “my beach chair”. And it is mine. All mine.
The story of the acquisition of my beach chair is a part of
its allure for me, but just a part. I bought it while strolling to take a ferry
to an island in the middle of Long Island Sound to spend a very hot 4th
of July. It was in the middle of a very busy and incredibly stressful period in
my former working life (that is, my life prior to seeing the light and becoming
a ski professional). That day and my chair were part of a bigger point to make
about where my priorities were (and weren’t) at the time. I headed out in
morning with notes for the work project that was still in process, a fully
charged cell phone, the New York Times, a good sandwich from the local deli,
flip flops, hat, sunblock and the like. I walked directly to the neighborhood
hardware store, bought the chair and sat in it for the entire day. That was
almost twenty years ago and the chair has been a part of my life ever since.
The thing that makes a great beach chair so wonderful is what
it’s not. It is a beach chair, not a lawn chair, a deck chair or a piece of
outdoor furniture. It’s not particularly mobile, so it’s not the sort of thing
one can bring anywhere requiring a lot of walking. It’s low-slung style and
casual posture makes it unworthy as a dining chair for meals with friends on
the patio in summer. It’s a bit tough to get in and out of so it’s not ideal
for watching sporting events. It is however, perfect for short strolls to
village greens to watch 4th of July fireworks, listening to outdoor concerts,
outings to not-very-distant beaches, reading the entire newspaper in the local
park, and generally listening to the wind in the trees and watching the world
go by. It’s also exceptional for that particularly indispensable warm-weather
activity: the impromptu nap while “reading”.
After a long season of constantly running around, looking
after the best interests of our guests, my staff, and lots of other folks in
weather and under circumstances that can be challenging in a good winter, my
chair looms in my imagination. Don’t make too many plans and make them all stress
free; commit to doing things that are open-ended by design; eat when hungry,
sleep when tired; spend time with people of your own choosing; rotate every so
often to face the sun; spend hours contemplating your next move – not your next
professional move, social move, or intellectual one. Water or ice tea, or maybe
that ice cold Miller High Life hiding in the back of the fridge. It’s a big
decision, so don’t rush it. Above all, be present, be aware of your
surroundings but at one with them, and be yourself. My beach chair promotes all
of this and, in particular, this mode of thinking.
We've had a good few weeks, my beach chair and I, and I’m
grateful for it. Unfortunately, my beach chair cannot come where I am going and
it wouldn’t be very useful there anyway. I’m on my way to New Zealand for my
next winter, but I’ll look forward to reconnecting with my beach chair
when I come home and to finding the peace of mind it promotes. In the interim,
my tenth Kiwi winter starts next week and it won’t exactly be a
hardship!
1 comment:
Amazing that the universe created that serendipitious meeting on the ski field when we chatted about the importance of the small things in life and when I read your blog your have written Ode on a Beach Chair. Somethings are too strange and strong to be coincidences! Fay
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